While anyone who knows what they like it bed will tell you they prefer skill over size, it is still good to know some tips and tricks relevant to your size. Having a big penis is nothing if you don’t know how to use it and most women will agree that simply sticking it in and thrusting will hardly ever get them off alone. If you have a big penis and are looking to up your game in bed, check out the following 10 tips for men with huge penises.
1. Acknowledge it
If you’re big, there are chances that your partner is intimidated and possibly scared of attempting to take on your member. Before any sex you should talk to your partner about those fears and come up with a back up plan if they find it to be too painful. Sex isn’t always penis in vagina, but your partner may feel like they’ve let you down if they’re unable to take your full length or girth. The first step for any man with a large penis is to assure that their partner is comfortable and that they don’t feel insecure if they’re unable to accomplish PIV.
Foreplay is an important part of sex for any couple, but when it comes to taking a large object, women need at least 20 minutes of warm up before they’re fully aroused. Try making out, exploring her body, or giving her a couple of orgasms with your mouth first. Making sure her vagina is ready for entry will help your success rate and her comfort. Be sure that she’s fully aroused and ready for penetration before trying to fit your penis in her.
3. Make Her Orgasm First
I mentioned that you should attempt to give her an orgasm with your mouth during foreplay, if that isn’t your thing, try to ensure that she has an orgasm with your hand or toys first. Having an orgasm will help her to loosen up and be ready to take your full member.
4. Work Up To It
If you’ve warmed her up and given her a few orgasms, but she’s still uncomfortable with trying to take your full member, try working up to it. Use a variety different sized toys to work up to something comparable to your size. Start small and slowly move up as she’s ready. If she is comfortable doing this, you may practice each time before having her sex and train her vagina to take larger objects without as much warm up.
5. Let Her Be In Control
Allowing her to control the speed and depth with not only help ease her fears of taking a big penis, but will also help with any discomfort she may experience. Sex should never be painful, even when dealing with a big penis, but it can cause discomfort if you go too fast, don’t give her time to warm up, or don’t pay attention to her cues. Letting her be in control will allow her to adjust to what her body is saying and be able to take you at her own rate.
6. Try Different Positions
Girl on top or doggy style may provide too deep of penetration for a man with a big penis. If your girl is complaining that certain positions are hurting her, try others.Try missionary position but instead sit on your knees and enter her. This will limit the amount of length she will take, but feel tight and great for you!
7. Use A Buffer
If you want to try a position that may hurt her, use a buffer. Take a Tenga egg or other short sleeve and cut open the other end. Lube it up and slip the entire sleeve over the length of your penis and use it as a buffer so that you won’t push too far into your partner. You can also have your partner twist the buffer around the base of your penis while you thrust into her for a more intense stimulation.
8. Take it Slow
No matter which method you choose to help you partner prepare for a large penis, you’re going to have to take your time. It takes at least 20 minutes of foreplay before a woman is fully aroused and ready for penetration and then to prevent tearing you should be patient while working up to a size similar to yours.
9. Try Non-Penetrative Sex
Sex doesn’t have to be all about penis in vagina, women can have sex with one another for hours without entering one another. Experiment with oral sex, boob jobs, hand jobs, and mutual masturbation. Non-penetrative sex can be fulfilling for both partners and can be a great way to working up to and easing your partner into having penetrative sex.
10. Lots of Lube
If you have a large member using a lot of lube is important. This will help ensure that you go in easily without causing any chaffing or drag. It will also help keep friction to a minimum and since you will be making contact on all edges, keeping that friction down is important. Find a lube that is glycerin and paraben free for a more comfortable experience. Silicone lubes last the longest and will provide the slipperiest experience.
While media would have you believe that all you need is a big penis, that is often not the case. More times than not new partners are intimidated or frightened of a large penis. The classic “5 minutes of foreplay, in, out, in, out, done,” will not cut it. And having a large member requires more prep time than for a man with an average sized penis.