Fleshlight S.T.U Introduction
Not lasting long enough in bed is a common worry among us men. Some of us suffer from premature ejaculation, others just do not feel like we last long enough. Thankfully, Fleshlight has considered this and created a device to help us train. The S.T.U, or the Stamina Training Unit, is their solution to this problem.
Even if you do not struggle with stamina issues, and just want to improve your going time, this is a great option. The S.T.U helps men who struggle with premature ejaculation, men who want to last longer in bed, and even porn stars to prep for a scene!
If you have tried pills, lotions, creams, lubes, and a plethora of other products to help you last longer, but have found that they have let you down, maybe it is time to try training yourself. Just like with anything else, lasting longer in bed is all about practice. After all, practice makes perfect, right?
What is the Fleshlight S.T.U?
The S.T.U is Fleshlight’s answer to men who wish to last longer in bed. The website promises to help improve stamina in bed, teach advanced technique and rhythm, provide more intense orgasms, and an enormous improvement in controlling your ejaculate.
The website boasts “If you can last 10 minutes in the Stamina Training Unit, you can last 20 minutes in bed with anyone.” While it may take some practice to be able to last 10 minutes with this toy, it can be done! And don’t stop at 10 minutes. I trained until I could use the toy for 20 minutes without coming and now, to my partner’s delight, I can last nearly an hour in bed.
The S.T.U does exactly what it is designed to do while providing fun, enjoyment, and a good time. It’s a great option for any man who wants to improve his lasting time in the bedroom.
Fleshlight S.T.U Features
The S.T.U features large raised bumps in a stacked pattern. Along with the bumps you can adjust the suction to your liking with the cap on the bottom of the Fleshlight casing. This is great for men who have used the S.T.U enough to become accustomed to the sensations it provides.
The bumps or “speedbumps” do not start until about a half an inch into the canal and provide an intense sensation that may have an inexperienced man coming within merely a couple of strokes. The size of the bumps creates an unrealistic tightness.
You can experiment with the suction, as mentioned above, and the feeling by warming it or cooling it under water. It’s best to experiment with what makes you edge and start there. You will want to practice edging with the S.T.U until you build up your stamina and it takes you longer to reach that edge.
What comes in the box?
The product page on the Fleshlight website says that the following come in the box:
• Patented SuperSkin™ Fleshlight® Sleeve
• Exclusive Gold Fleshlight Case
• Shower Mount
• Shower Mount Adapter for Flight Case
• Fleshlube Water (8 oz.)
• FREE e-guide for increasing your stamina
The SuperSkin is body safe, phthalate and latex free, and should only be used with water based lubricants.
The case only comes in one color: gold. But you can put the sleeve into any full sized Fleshlight casing you have. Personally, I enjoy the clear cases the most.
The e-guide is to help you learn how many strokes per minute is appropriate while training. It also includes what to do once you are comfortable with the basic training. It is not the best manual, but it does help if you are not sure where to start and want to be serious about training with the S.T.U.
Fleshlight S.T.U Demo Videos
How to Use the Fleshlight S.T.U
You can use the S.T.U with the user manual I mentioned above or just go at it without guidance. When I first got the S.T.U I knew that I would be reviewing it and I wanted to follow the suggested guidelines.
I followed the manual for about a week. I found that I quickly progressed through each suggested step and onto the next. It can be slow and tedious to use the manual. I found that I enjoyed the S.T.U more when I took it on alone.
Counting strokes was too distracting and I found that I couldn’t fully enjoy the experience that way. Instead I set a timer for however long I want to practice and see if I can make it that long.
You will have to use it for a few days, if not a couple of weeks, before you start to notice a huge difference. It is “training,” after all! But if you can make the S.T.U part of your daily routine or use it whenever you jerk off, those days/weeks will fly by and be fun.
Considering that the kit comes with shower attachments, I have used it in the shower a couple of times. This makes it easy to add to your morning routine: shave, shower, get off, get out.
Training with the S.T.U isn’t just about getting off, though. It’s about mentally wanting to last longer. You have to push yourself to train harder and longer. You have to want the results. You have to stop yourself before you come and try to regain control over yourself before continuing.
Some tips that have helped me with training are:
• Learn what breathing techniques help you
• Stop BEFORE you reach the point of no return
• Learn to edge
• Experiment with what suction level, angles, and speeds work best for you
• If you’re serious about this: don’t masturbate without the S.T.U until you’ve reached the amount of time you want
What Do I Like About The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit
Life-like – The S.T.U comes in two different designs: vagina and pure hole. While the pure hole looks like just a plain ol’ boring hole, the vagina is nicely designed and looks realistic. It is complete with labia and clit.
Easy to Use – While it does take a little time to find the right stroking speed and suction for you, the S.T.U is very simple to use. Whether you decide to count strokes or set a timer, it doesn’t take much work to get going. The only things you need to worry about is controlling your breathing and not getting off too soon!
Aides with Many Things – The best thing about this unit is that it helps with so many different ailments. While it is marketed for premature ejaculation or lasting longer in bed, it also helps you to achieve stronger orgasms, cum harder, and teach you different techniques and rhythms to use in bed.
User Manual – While the user manual is simple and can be overly dumbed down for some users, it is great for users who aren’t sure where to start! As I mentioned above, if you don’t know where to start and are serious about upping your stamina, this is a great place to begin!
Strong Erections –I know I said this in the pro “aides with many things,” but I feel like this one needs its own bullet point. The S.T.U can help you to achieve stronger and harder erections.
What I Didn’t Like About the Fleshlight S.T.U
Messy – As with all Fleshlight toys, the end of this one opens into the cap on the end. That means if you cum a lot and have that cap open more than usual, it can seep out and create a mess.
Too Tight – Some users have noted that this is too tight. It isn’t a great option for users with a lot of girth. It is unrealistically tight, while some may consider this a pro, I feel like it hinders the girthy community and it would benefit Fleshlight to make a bigger model.
One Design – While the realistic look is great, it only comes in one design. You won’t find variations for different Fleshlight Ladies. So, if you enjoy having different outer shapes and designs to choose from, this would be a con.
Doesn’t Feel Realistic – The bumps on the inside of the toy do not feel realistic, at all! This contributes to help you last twice as long in bed than with the toy. But if you are looking for something that feels realistic, this is not it.
Need to Be Warmed Up – If you are like me and don’t like sticking your dick into cold SuperSkin, you need to warm this toy up with warm water first. You can do this by just running warm water through it or use it in the shower.
My Final Verdict
The Fleshlight S.T.U is a great option for men who are wanting to last longer in bed. Whether you suffer from premature ejaculation or just want to last longer, this toy can help. It comes with a great manual to help you get started and you can find many tips online for help with using it. The Fleshlight S.T.U gets an 8/10 from me!